Life can sometimes throw you for a loop when you’re focused, or at least think you’re focused and goal directed and not paying too much attention. Especially when your life plans have not come to fruition or when you have those so called “failure moments.” What are failure moments? Failure moments are when you have tried time and time again to accomplish personal and life goals and nothing is happening. For exapme, Starting a new career, opening a business, trying to lose weight, finish school and etc. I have been there time and time again and am somewhat still here. I have told myself severalntimes to give up and reinvent myself; but reinvent myself into what? What do you do when you don’t know what to do? This is the age old question for many who feel lost and without direction.
A life without purpose is one of the worst feelings in the world because everyday feel like a waste of time or an endless novel with no twist and turns . No one wants to waste their time because time is precious and meant to be spent. So what do you do when you lose your passion for life? You try again. At one point in your life you were passionate about something. Maybe it was a new baby, a new job or a once in a lifetime vacation. Remember how you felt? Butterflies in your stomach from the excitement and expectation of a new endeavor. The act of experiencing something new. Even if you have multiple children, no pregnancy is the same and the experience itself is different. So must your approach to getting your passion and motovation back for life. You must treat the journey like a one in a lifetime opportunity and plan for it like the unicorn you plan for it to be.
Half hearted attempts will get you the results you invested for…the same old same old. So how do you begin to start your life over again with different result? You start with the imagination. What are you envisioning? Success? A relationship? A killer body? Whatever the end result, what do you SEE IN YOUR MIND? The imagination is powerful and is where all successes begin. If you can’t see it, it will not manifest. Second, use positive affirmations. What you hear over and over becomes your truth because it gets into your heart. That’s why it is important to protect your eye-gates, ear-gates and heart from negativity and doubt. And lastly, Wait well.
While you’re actively waiting for the vision to come to pass by tweaking habits or saving money, also stay motivated and positive. Don’t get discouraged, dont give up and stay the course. Remember the old saying “quitters never win.” You cannot obtain what is never sought.

